Name: ______________________________
Sport: ______________________________
Date: ______________________________

Reflect on why you want your child to play this particular sport this season. Put a ? next to the 3 most important reasons. Then, rank those 3 reason 1, 2, 3 putting a 1 next to your most important reason, a 2 next to the 2nd most important reason, and so on. Compare your choices with your child's and with your spouse / partner's. Discuss openly, and with respect and curiosity, any differences that come up.

_____ I want my child to have a team experience
_____ I want my child to be with their friends
_____ I want my child to make new friends through the sport
_____ I want my child to improve their skills
_____ I want my child to learn new skills
_____ I want my child to have fun
_____ I want my child to have excitement
_____ I want my child to get some exercise
_____ I want my child to get in shape
_____ I want my child to compete against others
_____ I want my child to be challenged
_____ I want my child to learn to deal with losing
_____ I want my child to win
_____ I want my child to develop self-confidence
_____ I want my child to become a champion
_____ I want my child to be popular